A lot of people will complain about their situation, but have no intent on changing it (Focus 5% on the problem And focus 95% on the solution "Tony Robbins"). It is true what Earl Nightingale says, "We are all self-made, but only the successful will admit it". Ask yourself these questions "What is it that I have been complaining about that I know I can change, Now what can I do to make it go away. And finally, why would I like it gone. When you ask yourself why it is one of the most important questions, It should give you the needed driving force to complete that you want to.